My Recap - 2023

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It's Really Important to recap on every year end , How we gone through this entire year .

So that, we can lead better year for upcoming years.

Here's My Recap of 2023. 

Experienced:

    Smile a lot with Friends

    Being Happy and Enjoy the present moment most of the times.  

    Attend more social events ever than before.

  

Achieved:

    Got Monthly Salary 30k

    Saved 12k on Stocks Investments

    18 books readed this year

    75 wpm achieved on type writing

Act:

    like buying a Hyundai Exter car on Showroom.

    like buying a house at ECR, 4cr value Real Estate, Property villa.

Bought:

      Bed,Mattress for home,

      2 washing Machine for me and Sister,

      2 Laptops for me and Mom, 

      1 Monitor for Uncle Shop.

I'd love to know your Recap as well. Please share your recaps to me
via mail (rajakarthikeyan45@gmail.com) or comment below.

Thanks for Reading,

Raja Karthikeyan.

Secret tactics to Stop your Bad Habits

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In this Article, I share About... How to stop the habits that we don't like

Over a phase,We are all want to stop some bad habits that we have.

Even we try to stop that we fail,

So Again we started doing the activities that we don't like.

But how is that possible to stop bad habits?

Your Thoughts leads to actions,

Your Action leads to habits,

Your Habits leads to success.

                                      - Mahatma Gandhi

Doing bad things makes drain our energy, also reduce our self confidence.

Let's see how we can stop this bad habits...

First, you have to believe you can stop the bad habit.

Second, you will definitely change your thinking patterns from bad habits to good habits.

It's all start about how you think.

If you change your thinking it's makes changes in your habits, 

Focus on your thinking to what you want to achieve in your life.

While we try to quit our bad habits, in the beginning it's feels like hard to stop the habit permanently.

when we feel demotivated and tired we do the same bad habits again.

But always think like you already overcome the bad habit in your life.

There is no place for the bad habit in your life never again.

This type of thinking will give the confidence to over come the bad habit easily

I personally use this tactic recently for quite some of life time bad habits 

So the solution is, we must replace the bad habits into a new good habits.

Make list of your bad habits

On the other side you should write on the good habits

Take action on the good habits regularly and give reward yourself for doing that continously.

like go and eat on your favourite restaurant. Go outing to your favourite places 

 whenver your thought hit your bad habit activities, you must to replace that thought you have more power than thought ,and you have to divert your thought to feel energized & motivated.

Everyone have the brain power,

Everyone have the energy,

But Develop the habits for success.

                                           - Warren Buffet

How to Create A Relationship

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Create a relationship with our liked one, is an important thing for maintain a relationship

Don't wait for they talking to you.

You Go and talk to that person.

Observe that person interests, dressing style and activities

Started with commont you both have.

Give compliments to them in good manner.

Try to spend some time with them

Ask them to go out for dinner or which place that they like

If you started to with this ,they definitely feel about you in a good manner

You become a likable person to them

Creating a strong relationship, you need to spend more time with that person's.

The more time you spend with someone, the closer you will be

Spending time with people's for create a strong relationships is not enough to create a strong relation.

Understand their Feelings are most important.

This is the Secret of Relationship's Developing 

Understanding is an important tool for building  a Relationship. 

If you don't understand the person you will never get closer to that person. 

Understanding Persons makes lot's of Relationship's compared than those who don't.

Who have the sense of humor, can attract more people's easily.

If you have sense of humor, great develop it.

So others easily attracted by you

If you think you don't have sense of humor then read the comics books watch the comedy films.

After Try something crazy, talk with fun.

Act as already you have sense of humor then you will be.

For Create a long term relationships:

Lots of friends in school and college days but after they are gone. 

But we must have good friends and keep relations with long term.

Who have the good character and well being will create the long term relationship with others.

If you don't have the good character, people not like with you at long time.

Essential in long term relationship:

The attitude of giving up and tolerance for that person in some things make the long term relationship.

You give up your ego with your relations.Many divorces happen because many people don't give up the ego.

Develop Useful Contacts Its develop Your life.

Spend More time with Where you feel more Alive.

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Gratitude

Being Grateful is More Important Than Living

Gratitude:

Gratitude Means Being grateful for what we already have 

If you develop gratitude it's will change your entire life 

Not only say thanks to the person ,You must thankful for whatever you already having in your life like family,friends, foods, house, pets & books etc... 

We are not fulfill we already have those things And we don't realize the things how much worth it is.

We realize only when the thing is gone or missing after only we are realized how much the valuable is the thing it is 

Think once second how difficult it would be if you didn't have air to breathe. Your phone is missing how much difficult situation face in a day

But the good thing is if now have air to breathe well & have your mobile phone do the things whatever you want with your mobile, what a great privilege it is.

If You say thanks more ; Others will like You more & It's all will returned to You.

 So we're all must thankful for all of the things around us. Must be thankful for which this things you already have. 

Ex of mine:

1.I grateful for my books & that book author's and the papers of the pages

2.Even I said thanks for the breathing air

3.I say thanks to god for give a lovable friends & family

4.I feel so grateful for my pets because It has always kept me in a supreme position

👇Sample Clip of my daily gratitude note✌️

Its one of my favorite habit.

Gratitude makes you living a happiness life.

Gratitude is the biggest magic in the universe If you feel more grateful if you more attract what you want in your life. Say Thanks more

Now coming to the next topic

Sorry

We did the wrong thing then we must say sorry to others.

We don't see the ego for saying sorry, because when we are in ego it's totally damaged our life 

So saying sorry makes you're very responsible person. And also it's reduce your punishment for what you did.

And also over period of time we say sorry we lose our credibility. Prevention is better than cure 

So we must definitely do the things very carefully and responsibly.

Next time, You say sorry note the wrong thing don't do that next time in your life 

That's the one thing reduce said sorry in your life

Sorry is A valuable word, Don't use it often...

Thank you

Phone For Productivity

Recent Researches tells as a Average person Use mobile phone 4-5 hrs per day
But the matter is how we are spend the time is very important

Think about which app you use more time in your mobile. That's definitely is
Social Networks & Video games

Okay,I will  give you the techniques how to change your phone time waster into a productivity tool.

You should control your phone apps, otherwise That apps will control you.

1.Clock

 Create a Time table to depends upon your lifestyle

And Set Your wake up, Bed time and Important alarms related to your work

Goto the clock Set Alarms Now

2.Reminder 

Type your daily To-do list, weekly goals on your Reminders. It's will remind you the work and its help for achieving your works done


3.Calendar

Schedule Your Appointments Meeting , Important dates & friends birthday on your calendar app ,So you will finish your works & make wishes on time with your phone

4.Evernote

From last year this is one of my favorite app

Note your thoughts and doubts in Ever note

In free time ask the question to Google & get the answer

Its help you improve your knowledge tremendously and also use your time wisely

5. Google assistant

My first and best assistant is Google.

I always make voice command to Google assistant

For making calls ,setting alarm ,set reminders and so and so on

6. Learning apps

If you want to speak English fluently then try some English learning app and English communication apps like cambly and open talk

If you want to know how science actually works then you will try byju's

It save our time from don't waste and also we use the time purposefully

7.Google tasks

I enter my daily works in this app. so whenever I feel free, I just check my phone for remaining works. So I done that works in my free time so it very helpful for finishing the tasks without forgot.

7.Uninstall Useless Apps

Important thing is You should definitely uninstall all your video games & social networks except once like (whats app) or your choice

Most of the time we don't know how much time we waste a day

And later we realized it's totally waste.

So now Take your Mobile uninstalled all the video games

So You can use time with the productive apps.

At start it will difficult to do this, but once you do,it will save your lots of time in your life 

Listen...

Time is very precious, use it wisely and use your phone like your assistant.

It will remind you, it will work for you And it will gives you information .

Use your Time Purposefully

Thank you

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How to Set the Goals

How they way you write your goals, is the way to achieve your Goals.

We are all have some Goals in our life

If you want to achieve your goals easily, you must write your goals

Some of just thought their Goals, some person write their Goals

But they don't know how to write their goals properly
When You writing your Goals, is the time to Enter in your Subconscious mind.

In my case I have separate note for Goals, It's my Goal's Note.
Every week I wrote my weekly goals, I revise my Short term, long term & Life Goals

Divide Your Goals

List Your Goals

Divide Your Goals Like this & then put your Goals below

Set A Dead Line

Every goals should have dead lines

Dead lines means Time Period

You must finish your Goals in that particular Time.

Start Write Now

Buy a New Note For Start Writing Your Goals Now

It's Remind Our self, What we really want in Our life.
And It's give Focus on our Working Schedule.

I hope This Information will help write your goals & Achieve Efficiently

Thank You

How to be Always Happy

Sometimes If You feel bore & upset, We can boost-up our Energy Instantly
I Tell You some Energy Hacks in my Own Life Experience

1.Talk with Favorite once

We feel more Alive when we are talk with our favorite persons
That people's making fun & give support ourselves
We never miss that type of persons for life time

If you already find once, You are lucky.

2.Go to Outdoor

Number one thing I recommend go to Outdoors.
Get out where you are.Walk to your Favorite Place near by.
If you feel Bore or less energetic go to outdoor.I prefer go to alone
It's Change your mood, Boost up Your Energy Quickly.
It's give the time to think about yourself

Also If you are in happy, Go Outdoors with your favorite person, It's creates the beautiful moments in your life.

3.Power on your Home Theater.

Must be in all homes have home theater
We Dance Because we are Enjoy; We Enjoy Because We Are Dance
A Good Surrounding system makes you dance

It's Boost Your mood Instantly,Often I use this changing my mood Simply play my Favorite song

Also Your Guests Will like you Have home theater in your home

It will make you dance with your family
So You don't have yet, buy Quickly.

4.Exercise

5.Movies

We are all should take break often

Watching Action & Biography movies change your Moods good

It's motivates & gives positive vibe in our self

6.Meditation

If you have worries & upset Simply sit Alone
Take A deep breath & focus your Air flowing system on your body
Feel the Air traveling inside your body.

Then Think what you want, Instead of you don't want.
Dream while your meditate what you want to achieve in your life
Its Drives Courage with you to take some action Instantly.

7.Do your non completed work.

Do your,non completed work in free time.
It's will change your thinking worries into Accomplishments
It's my favorite one
I finish all the Remaining works when I feel bore & upset

It's Develops your self confidence to finish the next work immediately
Nowadays I never feel Bore & upset
Because I focus On my goals & life purpose
So Finish Your Small Goals When You Are in free

Thank You